kings asked:


Is there an advantage to having an attorney at a child custody hearing versus someone with out an attorney????

I can’t afford one, but I can prove the other party is an unfit mother.

A. She is a hooker (prostitute) I have emails of her soliciting

B. Her daughter (from previous boy friend) told me told me she doesn’t want to live wither her mom, bc she drops her off at night. (Daughter now traumatized)

C. Her daughter said her mom left her home alone 3 years ago, and daughter left to go look for her down the st. and a couple found her. Cops were called. Supposedly she went to go buy tampons, and left her daughter home alone, her daughter said it was to meet a guy.

D. She has lied on Government documents to get medi cal and wick and other Gov. Assistance. Claiming she had no job, however I discovered she owned a 600,000k house, and had a jaguar that was paid off in cash 20k value. Info was provided to me buy County recorder and assessor.

E. I smelled weed in her apt, and she told me that she smoked pot in the other room, which was about 40 days ago (I’m sure the judge can have her do a drug test) all while my son was present

F. On her child support services papers she indicated she has no job, but has 1500dollars in expenses; excluding her 3400 mortgage payment that she owes along with property taxes (This is Perjury)

G. She would take her daughter to go meet theses guys and leave her in the other room. (I have an email and plane ticket with travel arrangements for her to meet a guy at Sea World and Walt Disney World) While here daughter is distracted doing other things. Again her daughter is now traumatized,

H. I have witnessed her daughter talk back to her, and they would argue with each other, like adults. She would sometimes say “I’m going to hit you if you don’t do your homework or go to your room.”

I. Her daughter told me she does not want to live with her own mom but rather her dad.

K. She has hit me in the past, (there are pictures) Police report was taken. There were several other incidents similar to this but no pics because I wasn’t bleeding like the first one. None the less, I called the cops.

L. On her first declaration that I received after I summons her to court for custody of our son, she claimed that I hit her and cut her stomach open, and called the cops and went to the hospital ( Now that she has an attorney, she has done another declaration to supplement that one)
But it was all lies she made up in her declaration.

Do I have a strong case, Should I write another declaration to include all of this before my court hearing next week? And should I go for full custody instead joint legal and joint physical custody??